posted by Mel
One year ago today Vanessa and I showed up at Dr. G’s office around 7 AM hauling a metal tank. After 17 failed IUIs, a failed IVF, and a miscarriage after IVF using Vanessa’s eggs, I had undergone immunological screening that came back positive for alloimmunity. The RE said we should try IUI again w/the addition of aspirin and L0ven0x, so we made one last attempt, simultaneously shelling out $4000 to begin the process of domestic open adoption.
I was going through the motions. I was sick of injections, sick of the progesterone rollercoaster, sick of hoping and waiting, finally beginning to accept that no baby would ever come through my body. There were 5 follicles in play that month (had taken Fem@r@ and F0ll!st!m), and I remember poking fun at myself for ever having been worried about high order multiples during previous IUI cycles where I’d had far more follicles than this and not gotten pregnant.
One of those follicles contained the egg that got together with the contents of that tank and made this:

Buffy with her puppy



11 Comments
May 12, 2009 at 1:35 pm
What a happy anniversary. Great photo!
May 12, 2009 at 1:39 pm
incredible, isn’t it?? very cute picture!!
May 12, 2009 at 2:42 pm
beautiful photo
May 12, 2009 at 4:25 pm
the process of life is truly amazing! it is sooo very amazing.
May 12, 2009 at 4:54 pm
Happy IUI day!!!
May 12, 2009 at 6:15 pm
what a cute puppy!
May 13, 2009 at 4:59 am
hooray!
May 13, 2009 at 6:47 am
Look at the chub on those arms and legs! She is the cutest puppy I’ve EVER seen!
May 13, 2009 at 10:12 am
That’s the best kind of anniversary. The time it finally works…
May 14, 2009 at 12:52 pm
It is always so amazing to remember that such a beautiful little person started out as a ball of cells and a glimmer of hope (even when that hope was jaded quite a bit).
I hope you three (plus the pooch that seems to approve of her!) have many more wonderful anniversaries ahead to celebrate!
May 16, 2009 at 7:12 am
Happy Conceptionversary! It’s pretty amazing that you know the exact date you conceived!